wow i think most of you missed the boat and dont understand what some are trying to express.
if you cant sell, you cant eat. i was in retail sales prior to starting my business. i managed a 2 million dollar a year retail store for a large tele comm company. if it werent for my sales abilities, i wouldnt have made any money and neither would my sales staff. you have to have a basic understanding of many things when running a business. i also had a shop, but because of some bad decisions on my part i had to close it down. one of them was i bought what the salesman was selling. i refer to the leasing agent who sold me on the local, saying dont worry the owner doesnt care what you, as long as you pay your rent. well he did that to a few too many tenants and it was a business park that was occupied by people who were looking for the easy way out, i wasnt. people spraying cabinets for homes with nothing more than an open door and a fan. needless to say the property owner started to come down on everyone for everything. he had to, it was his business.
back on point, the agent sold me on the idea, the property manager brought me back to reality. if the leasing agent had no sales skills, read: people skills, i wouldnt have signed. he was a good sales man and i wanted the space.
i have always said you cant make people sales people. most are born with it or have suffered long and hard to learn. some people on these forums think they are the best detailers and they might be, but that doesnt make them business people. its one thing to be able to detail a car and a totally different thing to run a multi employee business. managing attitudes, coaching, setting goals, measuring goals, attaining goals, enforcing discipline those are things the books dont teach. i have read a lot of books and take what i can apply and leave the rest. i have managed as many as 25 direct reports, with 20+ years retail and i still dont know chit, i try every day to learn from anyone i can. sometimes the best lessons are those you dont see coming.
thats my 2 cents, i know i'm not a popular guy here and i dont mind. i'm here to learn and try to be the best i can be. IRL i think i am well liked and have a loyal customer base and some really good friends. but again its all about selling yourself. we do it every day, in work, relationships, friends. you might not realize it, but when you went on that first date, you were selling yourself, not literally i hope. but you put on your good clothes, made sure not to be rude, tried to pay attention, it was all basic selling skills.
ranting again, must be the turkey.