How dare you not agree with me, I am the all mighty... :spot
Actually I believe you have more experience then I do when it comes to this subject so your input is valuable to me.
However I think it is important for certain scientific aspects to be considered.
The most powerful "bond" will always be the first layer, the foundation. The durability of the first coat is going to set up the length of protection for the rest of the system. Example, I have used NXT (1) topped with M26. Nice look, but it lasted less then M26 by itself.
The film build (thickness) of the protective coating (LSP) is so thin that it cannot even be measured in in microns. When you apply a thin coat of product on top of the this microscopic LSP, you are essentially bombarding the micro thin layer with a huge (in context) amount of solvent. Enough to remix at least some of the previous layer.
This applies more to carnauba waxes. If the sovlents used in carnauba are so strong that they take concrete hard flakes and melt them into a liquid, imagine what those same solvents do when they contact the existing, micro thin and weakened, layer. Waxes do not crosslink but rather anchor and the attraction they have to paint is far less then the bond that a crosslinking polymer has.
Do I believe in layering? To a point. A the microscopic level layering ensures more even coverage which should increase the look and durabilty of the product. Will waxes anchor on top of sealants?
Taking this a step further, wax applied to bare paint should last longer then wax applied to sealant because it should anchor to the bare paint better. If a wax lasts 1 month on a bare, perfectly prepped paint, then it might only last 3 weeks over a sealant. There is a trade off. If the sealant allowed the wax to anchor completely, then I would question what benefit the sealant has anyways.
Contraversly, the more even the coverage of the sealant, the harder the time the wax should have bonding. Ever apply carnauba over Zaino? It just doesn't work IME.
On the flip side, applying wax over sealant might also reduce the durabilty of the sealant at some level as the solevents are going to 'attack' the existing sealant layer. It may slightly weaken the very top of the sealant, but then again, the wax provides a sacrfical barrier that helps protect the same top layer it removed, so is it adding more protection then it removes or vise a versa.
We can make this as complicated as we want but in the end the best idea is to try it for yourself and find the results you are happy with, then stick to those results and ignore everything I just typed