Ramp, I will chime in with my $.02 here again. I have seen your car in person and it is not in bad shape, AT ALL. If you get that one fender situation taken care of, you will not even need to use an abrasive polish on your car, period.
I'll tell you exactly what I would do with the car.
I would wash it (I believe you have Meg's GC? This is fine.) Don't bother drying yet, pull in the garage.
I would then clay it with blue Clay Magic clay using the supplied clay lube.
I would wash it again to remove any clay residue and carefully dry with a WW towel.
I would use Klasse AIO (or similar chemical cleaner type product). This stuff is fool proof.
I would seal it with your choice of protectant. Probably Collinite IW since it lasts forever and will hold up well if you ever need to run it through the tunnel. Any wax or sealant is fine, really.
I would use your Meg's Quik Detailer for smudges/bird bombs.
Nothing I have listed here can harm your paint if you use common sense and general discretion. I am not trying to take anything way from Toto, as I'm sure he does great work, but why not at least try it yourself first, get more familiar with your paint and the process, and save a few bucks in the long run?
That's just my opinion, of course.