I fully believe that the "switching to synthetic thing causing leaks" and the "Once you go syn, you can't go back" concepts are myths. This may have been true in the early days, but today's engine are much better.
I've gleaned a lot of information from Bobistheoilguy.com and believe it or not, they are people who put as much thought into engine oils as we do waxes.
The 3,000 mile oil change is a big waste IMHO. The excuse of "it's cheap insurance" is weak at beast. The fact that some people change quality synthetics at 3,000 miles is totally absurd to me. You should get at least 6,000 miles out of a good synthetic. The oil industry and the oil service places have pounded the 3,000 theory into people's heads for years.
Amsoil, Mobil 1, Red Line, Royal Purple, German Syntec, etc. are all high quality oils that offer great protection and life. Mobil 1 is coming out with new Extended Drain oils that can get 10,000 miles easy.
For engine cleaning, I highly recommend Auto-Rx. It is an ester based cleaner that slowly cleans the engine over he course of 3,000 miles or so. I wouldnâ€â„¢t use any other cleaner. I used it last year and noticed the top of my heads were very clean when I changed my rockers.
http://www.auto-rx.com
Two other products that Iâ€â„¢ve read (and experienced) good things about are Lube Control and Fuel Power. Iâ€â„¢ve used Fuel Power. It is a fuel additive added to each tank that boosts mileage a bit, cleans the combustion chamber and improves the energy level of the fuel/air mixture. I just got my jug of Lube Control. It helps oil last longer before breaking down. You can extend your change intervals with both dino and synthetic oils. Itâ€â„¢ll be going into both the Envoy (10,000 miles) and my GP (98,000 miles).
http://www.lubecontrol.com
I have no financial interest in any of these products. The link I provided do not contain any referral codes. I am just a satisfied user who has also seen many good reports about both products.
Sorry if I went a bit off topic, but I just had to clear up a few things I saw.