I'll list some of my favorites. Hopefully it can lead you in a direction when you decide to make purchases.
Wash - 4* Ultimate Auto Shampoo, NXT
Clay - Claymagic (blue)
Swirl removers - Poorboy's SSR3, SSR2.5, SSR1
Chemical Polish - Adam's Revive, Poorboy's Polish with Carnauba, Meg's ColorX
Glaze - Adam's Brilliance Spray Glaze
Sealant - 4* UPP
Wax - Victoria Wax Concours Wax, Pinnacle Paste Glaz, S100
Tire & Wheel Cleaner - Eagle One A2Z
Tire Dressing - Teflon Tire Shine, Adam's VRT
Interior Dressing - Adam's VRT
Exterior Dressing - Adam's VRT
APC - Simple Green
Glass cleaner - Stoner Invisible Glass
MF - Adam's MF, Big Blue from PAC
QD - Adam's Detailing Spray
Waterless Wash - Poorboy's Spray and Wipe
Hope that can help you somewhat.