Creamy peanut butter. Smear it on really good, rinse and then wash. It works really well. I had wax on all my door handles badly and it got it out.
Pretty cheap solution too
I have had good luck using meg's #39 and S100 TCC. Both may we require multiple passes depending on the condition of the trim. If trim is textured, try using a toothbrush with above cleaners.