House of Wax- noting that we could take this thread off in all sorts of directions (gee, get some gun-guys talking...), it's tough to say what'll work for a woman's/child's intro to handguns. Accumulatorette started with really light loads in a big heavy (S&W) revolver and promptly switched to a .45 Colt Govt. model. The recoil/muzzle blast somehow doesn't bother her *at all* (makes me envious some times) even though the muzzle-flip slows her down a bit.
But yeah, a full-size auto in .22 would be great. And a *REALLY* good instructor with a lot of experience under his belt (IMO good instructors are rarer than marring-free Jet Black BMWs).
If she's not gonna really put much time/interest into it I'd lean towards the Ruger revolver with their, oh what do they call it..."light DA trigger" or somesuch. I *think* it's called the LCR but I'm out-of-date on this stuff. Women seem to love those things and they're a whole 'nother ballgame compared to the Colt/S&W DAs that guys tend to buy for them (which a lot of women seem to *hate* shooting with predictable results).
Aw man, we haven't done any shooting since forever..