Just want to chime in on the edgy thing whenever people get too close to my car, or lean on it(at least try to, cause they usually don't get to do it, if im near the ride)..........i got a friend of mine who constantly is looking at my paint, i gues to find flqws in the finish, and he's got this REALLY annoying habit of scractching small defects with his fingernails.........do i have to tell you that HE DRIVES ME NUTS WITH THAT

i constantly have to remind him to stop doing it, at least not on my car. people have a hard time catching how much we care for our cars, and often times tend to say us as superficial beings.
my sister in law boyfriends has this real annoying habit of his : in the winter season, just before he gets into a car, he knock snow off his boots on the rocker panel

!!!!!! How bad is this !! Now do you think i still allow him into my ride ?

The answer is hell no lol.......he refuses to go by my set of rules(very simple one on top of it, just plain common sense), i find it real hard to understand why some people refuse to cooperate. I told him : in your car, you tell me what to do, and i'll respect that, but i expect the same in return......which is logical.
Anyway, the moral of this is, some people just dont have any respect however hard or gently to try to explain it to them.
just my two cents here
