WAS
Driven
Jean-Claude said:It's the mentality. Are you focusing on educating and meeting their wants and needs or are you fixated on selling this or that?
In short:
Him: I want my car detailed.
Me: What did you have in mind?
Him: Dunno, I have a car show and want to win.
Me: Ok, let's take a look at it.
-We look at it-
Me: Are you wanting clean or show car clean?
Him: I want to win.
Me: Ok, [hands him a quote with a break down on prices] this is what I came up with. If you want the best this is it. [explains everything clearly and ask him if he has any questions]
Him: Let's do this....
If you still think I was selling him something, we can agree to disagree. But my goal was to find out what he wanted and deliver. Whether it was a car wash or more.
You were educating, sure, but you were still selling. You asked him if he wants clean or wants to win, he said win. You then suggested what *you* believed was the best method(s) to get his vehicle to perfection. That's the selling part. I'm not saying that you didn't educate or didn't listen to what he wanted, a huge part of good successful sales skills is exactly this. I'm just saying that you still did selling.