No, there's nothing contradictory in my post.
In your post that I was basically replying to, you stated:
<strong class='bbc'>"So, IMO any product that claims "sheeting" must contain some sort of abrasive as well, even if it is very minute amounts. The abrasives are what's causing the sheeting action, otherwise there would be beading. So, I think the whole sheeting thing is a myth"[/b]
My point was that the mere presence of abrasives, in and of themselves, are not causing the sheeting. It depends on the total function of the product . Surely at some time in your life, you have used a "one-step" or "cleaner wax" type product that contained abrasives. I know I have--yet the car beaded water after their use. That is because "one-step"or "cleaner wax" also contain a protectant in their formula as well as abrasives. Autoglym Super Resin Polish would be an example.
Also you stated:
<strong class='bbc'>"Sheeting is completely natural on an unwaxed or sealant free car AND on those where an abrasive has been used". [/b](caps mine)
You had the first part right; but the second part was wrong.
Also you stated:
<strong class='bbc'>"When you wash a car after using SMR or a Rubbing Compound the water lays on the surface and sort of sheets off because of the abrasive action on the paint"[/b]
You were using pure paint cleaners/swirl removers (SMR) or rubbing compounds that have no protectant qualities. Yes, as I stated, the abrasives REMOVED the protectant. Cleaning or compounding is the SOLE function of those products. They contain NO protectant. So naturally water never beaded. But that doesn't mean that ANY product with abrasives in it will cause water to sheet off a car. Which is certainly what you implied in your post.