I test-drove a BMW 1-Series with paddles, and then drove a similar car with a stick. I ordered the stick, and haven't looked back.
I drove a 3-Series (Tiptronic) loaner yesterday while the 1er was in for service. I couldn't wait to get my stick back. And, there was NO WAY that I could mess around with i-Drive menus while driving. I pulled off the road, found a suitable radio station, got the interior temperature comfortable, said the hell with the rest of it, and reusmed driving.
I do have a USB port in my car, into which my Ipod is plugged. I can switch songs via buttons on the steering wheel. That's as disctacted as I would care to be while driving. I do have playlists in the Ipod, so I like to pick one before I start driving, start it up, and go with it.
As a dismissal-time, student parking lot monitor the last few years of my teaching career, I saw way too much "driving while distracted" to suit me. Once, I had to bail out into a snowbank to avoid a student who was texting while driving. I begged administration for the power to write discipline referrals on students who were driving in such a manner, but got nowhere.
Of course, the main exit street from the school was the scene of 10-12 fender-benders each school year. I aviod it like the plague at certain times of the day.
I have promised to teach my daughter how to drive a stick (think I will start her out on my Focus ; ) She is a good driver, does want to learn, and I think it would spur her to buy manual-shift cars in the future.