I gotta be honest, I'm kinda losing faith here.

The Duke

The Duke

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I really can't seem to get ahead in relationships. I'm always asked how I'm still single or many assume I have a girlfriend. I get asked if I have a girlfriend a lot. Anytime I seem to try and make a move I find out she has a boyfriend and having morals, there's a dead end (I'm not one of those people who try to pry the two apart in the hopes I'll get a chance. I'm not a wanker). I'm just starting to think, if so many people assume I should be in a relationship, why aren't I? I've been told I'm somewhat decent (passable?) looking person and many are kinda surprised when I tell them I'm single.

Ugh...I need to clear my head with some Mr. Guinness.
 
Been there for many years. Try the grocery store, it worked for me. My wife was working in the deli and thats how I found her. Shed auctually seen me a year plus before that. Between those she worked at a convenience store, and I did ask her if she wanted to go to the stock car races that night, she was working. Shes not a local so she had no idea who I was, SURPRIZE on her. Weve been together since Halloween 1999. And yes Im OLD.
 
RANDAL said:
Been there for many years. Try the grocery store, it worked for me. My wife was working in the deli and thats how I found her. Shed auctually seen me a year plus before that. Between those she worked at a convenience store, and I did ask her if she wanted to go to the stock car races that night, she was working. Shes not a local so she had no idea who I was, SURPRIZE on her. Weve been together since Halloween 1999. And yes Im OLD.
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I worked in one for 2 years in High School. Lots of fun. Lots of hot moms too...;)
 
The Duke said:
I'm kinda sick of what I have right now to be honest. I'd rather have a fun and then a failure, then nothing ever happening.
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in that case then ask one hundred girls out over the next three months, a few are bound to accept your invitation. (law of averages) good luck
 
Play the ANTI game.
Tell a really hot woman if she doesn't mind being seen with a guy far better looking than her you'll take her to dinner.Then walk away.... she will follow.
You need fast reflexes for this maneuver as some women will immediately try and slap you,but I promise there will be some who will bite.

I treat my wife like a goddess,but when I was dating the more I ignored a woman the more they chased.If I was the bad boy(like the above example)they threw themselves at me.
 
The Duke said:
I've thought about it. The problem is I'm having trouble finding 100 that meet the criteria (mine and thiers).
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A good friend of mine used to say this, " Dave, beauty is just a light switch away." I believe that a lot of us obsess over superficial things such as outward looks and seeking a girl with a perfect body, and we often walk right past true inner beauty. don't be too picky, just get to know a few girls. I once dated a girl who had too much space between her eyes, at first I would think it was wierd looking and was turned off by it but after getting to know her for a while, her beautiful personallity was captivating and her "space between the eyes" was no longer an issue. They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but you must behold something to see it.
 
What's the hurry? Assume that you have lost 50% of all your assets and see if you would still be in such a hurry.
 
^ Now, that's funny. I'm in the same boat, but I've gone on more dates in the last few years than any other time in my entire life. What I'm finding is that they get attached sooo fast nowdays. So it makes it hard either way.
 
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