a.k.a. Patrick said:
That also depends on how you define quality of life. The income needed to sustain a reasonable quality of life in Ca., is going to be substantialy more then most parts of the USA. Just a known fact you have to earn more, to live more out here. (Hence, my desire to leave) I could guarantee, my initiative in my daily tasks, and the benefit derived from it, would/could go a lot farther if I lived somewhere else.
Personal drive is key in your quest. Your going to receive, only what your putting into it.
Set your goals fairly low in the beginning, so there reasonably attainable. Then build off your successes, for establishing higher/new goals.
I cant stress enough, be r e a s o n a b l e......