hmmm, heres the thoughts of a young boy that has never owned his own car before... anyways, silver looks really really sharp when its well maintained (you should see ranney's wife's silver civic!), however, on the flip side, it looks ugly when its faded, as my dad would say. i guess your the type that wouldnt let your paint be neglected, so silver is a great color for you IMO. ditto for white
however, two colors that i really like are red and blue. however, aristotle believed in moderation. i feel blue and red are in moderation (maybe a bit over). theyre not too dark, but not too light (ex. black/yellow). on top of that, they both really sharp when detailed. im not sure if youre the type that wants to show off your car on the road, but if so, i would say that blue and red would be a pretty safe bet. i was considering all of this, because im also looking for a car, used, mind you. black is VERY nice, but hey, nearly no one is perfect. my dad has a black el camino and its a ***** to maintain. on the flip side, my neighbor has a red eclipse, which i would pick anyday. im not the type to spend 8 hours every weekend to my car (hey, im a teenager, i got my priorities too!!!). also, one of my aunties has a sizziling hot blue saturn, with suicide doors. in the end, i would recommend blue, but thats only my opinion...
edit: forgot to add, it also matters on what kinda car youre gonna get. if youre gettin a rolls royce/bentley, i would recommend you go with a more conservative color.... my friend has a dark red rolls royce (his family owns FOUR rolls royces), and its very nice, but id much rather see it in black......... yea, and the same thing goes with the hybrids. i dont think a hybrid would look very hot in red............................