From my research and over 30 years in the detail industry I believe that the "thing" about paint hardness is more of a myth than a reality.
Hardness of paint has to do with solids in the paint. Laquers were quite hard when dried because they had a great deal of solvents in them. That is why you could see "cracks" in a laquer paint finish.
When enamels were introduced, their advantage, among other things, was that they sprayed shiney and did not have to be buffed out, but they contained more solids so were softer than laquer.
BUT saying they are soft does not mean they are "soft" to the point you can put a mark in them with your fingernail.
Then when the EPA cracked down on solvents emitted into the enviroment the paint companies went to 2 part chemically curing paint systems that had even more solids.
In the factory these 2 part thermal and chemically curing paint systems have to be heated to 400 degrees to cure and it seems to me that they would not come out "soft."
The fact that a paint has more solids does not mean that it is "soft" in the sense of the word that is commonly defined as soft.
Bottomline, I have yet to find a paint finish from any maker, American; Asian, European in any country, that is soft or requires any special treatment other than a proper diagnosis of the paint system, clear coat or single stage; the problem and then the choice of the right tool, pad and compound.
If you find you have a paint finish that is "soft" then you have a problem. I have seen paint finishes where you could put a mark in the paint with a fingernail and there was a problem. Typically it is usually on aftermarket paint jobs.
Just my experience, maybe someone else has some different experience or facts.
Bud Abraham