ok it seems to me your trying to keep it on the cheeper side of things which is good I did also You have some good products in mind and Just need a hand so one word for ya ""KIT""
I bought a few kit and they made all the differance becaus of the MF and other bonus i got with themm
http://www.autogeek.net/
Wolfgang Elastic Poly Clay Kit
I love this clay
Klasse Kit
what can i say it's the best(zanio lovers would pic zanio I just haven't tried that and I get results with klasse)
http://www.premiumautocare.com/
Four Star Ultimate Detailing Clay Kit Deluxe
never used it but you get FOUR towels
Detail City Favorite Kit #1
Some say UPP is better then SG Plus you get MORE TOWELS ( you can never have enough towels)
Menzerna Get Acquainted Kit
Cheep, good produts(I posted about them in the detailing dissution fourm) and should be enough for your car
http://www.ocdpharmacy.com/
it's anouther place but I didn't see too much there
and last but not least
http://www.autopia-carcare.com/
Sonüs Perfect Paint Finish Kit
Never used it But I LOVE sonus Cockpit spray
Sonus makes it easy. Start with the Sonüs Perfect Shine Base Finish Kit (SON-BASE-KIT), then select the top-coat kit that best suits your needs.
So there you go a few place to look around and get some stuff I'm not really recomending one store over another just wanteding you to see what is out there and to beable to get the most for your money
patrick
you can always PM me if needed