dtailmycar- Sheesh, that must be frustrating. I'm sure I'm one of the people who said "buy a 4" pad", so let's see if I can help any.
First, let's set a baseline definition of "passes". I consider a "pass" to be a full working of the product, but others might define "pass" differently. IMO there's no point in using *anything* if you don't really *use* it, and you have to completely break down products like EC. So to me, a "pass" means you worked it until it's ready to be buffed off (almost dry). Doing that twice might not resolve the marring via PC. When I did the beater-Blazer, my EC/1Z Ultra mix process was two-four passes with the rotary and then two more with the Cyclo. When I used H-T HC (not quite as potent, but still..) on a RIDS on the S8, I did a *LOT* more than two passes, more like five or six at least, I forget exactly. Now that *does* have hard clear, but this RIDS was mighty minor, most people wouldn't have even seen it.
So with the PC/4", working EC until it's ready to be buffed off, and applying sensible added pressure, expect to do it more than just a few times. Sorry to say, it's just the nature of the beast- it's mild so it takes a long time. At least with the 4" pad you can use some pressure and really work the product without the machine just "jiggling" the way it does with larger pads.
Using a rotary would speed things up immeasurably but that's a pretty big step.
If you didn't already, I'd add something to increase the EC's work time so it really breaks down before it flashes off (the two can happen at different times).
I wouldn't switch to a 6.5" pad until you've corrected the marring and are left with micromarring.
Other thoughts:
Don't judge your work by what others have done. I consider myself pretty good at this stuff, but there are plenty of things that other people do that *I* could never do, at least not in the same amount of time.
As mentioned, some stuff just doesn't come out even when it looks like it oughta :nixweiss I tend to err on the side of caution and live with marring rather than risk damaging/thinning the paint. Others would wetsand and get out the wool bonnets for their rotaries, but that's them, not me.