After I wrecked my car, I only washed it twice in 6 weeks and QDed it a couple times and really didn't notice any swirls or spiderwebbing...but about a week before I wrecked it, I polished it with Clearkote's Vanilla Moose (a real nice polish that should be available to the general public in about a month), followed by Meguiars Hand Polish (BSP line) and waxed twice with S100.
Normally, I wax my car every 4 weeks, wash it once or twice a week and QD every few days, so I really never have any noticable spiderwebbing or swirls.
Now that I mostly fixed the front end of my car...actually, a body shop pulled the radiator support back into place, along with the bumper, straightened the hood (amazing job considering they did no actual bodywork)..had a few dimples where they had to pound out a crease but a nose bra effectively covers it, and they also replaced my headlight...huge improvement...I actually felt like washing and waxing my car the other day.