Buff Guys Auto- NO worries Re stepping on my toes, and nothing would please me more than for my assessment to be wrong

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Jacobpockros can get it sorted out (via wetsanding or anything else cheaper than a redo) then I'll be happy. It's just never worked out like that for me, with metallics or regular paint. Well, I take that back...with single stage lacquer I was able to level it, but that's such prehistoric stuff that, eh...who cares.
Jacobpockros- Since it's a supposedly reputable shop, I'd take it back to them. Tell 'em that it looks like they used some harsh grit paper (120? 240? whatever it was it was pretty coarse IMO) for the last passes when prepping it, and relied on their primer to fill in the sanding scratches. But.... as the paint aged it tightened/shrank back, and the sanding marks became obvious.
IME, when you know what the problem is, they're more likely to take you seriously and try to make you happy by doing things the right way. ("Uh-oh, this guy isn't the typically ignorant customer...we'd better do it right.")
They won't be happy about the whole thing, but since it's *your* happiness that matters maybe they'll sort it out. FWIW, the shop that left me with that problem was willing to redo it (they fixed it on my car, but on my wife's car she said to let it go, that she'd just live with it).