Steve
These posts underscore that we are a true community although most of us have never met! I am truly thankful to be a part of this group.
I went through a bypass at 49 years old, my brother at 45. In the genes. I think it's important to remember that, when Steve is recovered, he will literally have the heart of someone 1/2 his age. I have a friend who had a heart attack and a quadruple bypass; today, following several years of exercise, the doctors cannot find damage to his heart!
Steve's major challenge will be to not be too hard on himself and try to come back too fast. Given his age, he'll also have to watch out for clinical depression. But that can be handled.
Bottom line: Steve will be back, stronger than before. It may be hard to believe, but a year or two from now, Steve may be saying this was a positive event in his life.